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Laos
Experience
In Laos
When I was working in a rehabilitation hospital in
Laos, Southeast Asia, most of the babies I saw there didn't wear any
nappies. Parents would lay their baby on our examination couch with
an cloth underneath and hold the baby over the sink when it needed
to urinate. In rural villages, toddlers wore T-shirts or dresses but
no pants or trousers. Occasionally, I saw an adult holding a baby
over a bush for it do its "business".
Back home
I didn’t think too much about this until I was back
home in the UK and expecting my first baby. Motivated by green
issues, I started reading up about re-usable cloth nappies on the
internet. While doing so, I stumbled across other sites on “Natural
Infant Hygiene” or "Elimination Communication" where babies can be
trained from an early age to 'wee' and 'poo' into a receptacle,
similar to what I had seen in Laos.
First daughter
This inspired me to try my first daughter over the
toilet when she was only 6 days old. I also tried her for a few days
without a nappy but I found it too time consuming to keep
going to the toilet every hour or so. Also, she kept kicking
off the towel used to keep her warm (it was winter) and it was a
real hassle to pick her up and keep the towel in place, not to
mention the "accidents". Finally, I decided to put her back in a
nappy and toilet her at nappy changes, every 3 hours or so during
the day.
From the start my baby would wee or poo most times I
held her over the toilet (she would also do so in the nappy when the
mood took her!). After about 5 months she would only poo over the
toilet and not in the nappy. As soon as she could independently sit
up at about 6 months she started sitting on the potty and I would
read books to her. At 23˝ months she was wearing trainer pants and
had a wee accident only about once a week. I would put her on the
potty (or toilet if we were out) at least every 3 hours. When asked
if she needed to go to the potty she would say “no”, even when she
needed it. At 2 years 5 months she would ask to go to the potty when
she needed to go. She preferred to use the potty at home but could
use the toilet when out. She could wipe herself after a wee but was
unable to pull up her pants herself. She was totally out of nappies
day and night by this stage.
According to the UK Environment Agency surveys, this
is average timing for being out of nappies, so for her the technique
didn't result in earlier independent toileting. Nevertheless my
husband and I really appreciated not having to change smelly nappies
every day, so we felt that early toileting was worth doing.
Second daughter
When my second daughter arrived, I started holding her
over the toilet from 3 days old. For the first month she did a wee
or poo over the toilet almost every time. During the second month we
didn’t have much success, but I persevered. In the third month she
did a wee or poo over the toilet most times. Also the frequency of
pooing reduced a lot so mostly it wasn’t in the nappy. Because I
wanted to set up this website, I started recording all the results
on a chart. At 6 months she was able to independently sit, so I
started her on the potty.
Lucy
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